Are you done with someone and the first thing you do is delete your Facebook? Believe it or not there are things you should not do on your social networks at the end of the affair, reported Salud180.
In an interview here, Valeria Schapira, an expert on relationships for Match, explains that social networks should be used to build bridges and build, not to generate resentment.
"It's important to be respectful of the relationship he had with the person," so you avoid some of the following behaviors on your social networks.
1. Delete your ex
Valeria Schapira said that one way to demonstrate maturity is to keep contact your ex on social networks, especially if the break was in good terms.
2. Upload photos kissing someone else
This action is a lack of respect for your former partner. No matter what has happened, what is recommended it is to wait a while before getting images with tokens of affection to somebody else.
3. Delete the pictures
No need to remove photographs that show the story of your life. If necessary, you can change the settings so that they are visible to the people you see fit.
"If you remove photos is like the person and forget everything that lived with him," explains Valeria.
4. Block the couple's friends
The specialist noted that this is a great sign of emotional immaturity. No need to remove them end with your partner, on the contrary, you can keep the friendship of those you care about.
5. Do not be careful postings
Ideally you are more careful when publishing your comments in the social network. Avoid sending messages to your ex hurt.
6. Give jealousy
The worst thing you can do is upload images where you enjoy time with people she did not like your ex, just to make him jealous.
7. Speaking ill of former
It's horrible. When you do, ultimately you talk badly about yourself. Remember that you are expressing someone you chose, so if it was so awful and so bad person, that you were with him or her.
Before doing so think twice; discusses how you feel when you read what you're posting, so you will notice if you're doing the right thing or just a "tantrum or whim."
8. yourself the victim
Each person is free to publish whatever they want, but open your heart or victimize can generate emotions of empathy or rejection.
It is very good to share intimate feelings with people you know and understand the situation you are in, so if you feel the need, it's best to share it with your best friends.
Valeria Schapira concludes that all these behaviors are harmful in the short and long term. It is best to accept that the relationship is over and focus your energy into something positive to overcome the stage of grief and find a new love.
In an interview here, Valeria Schapira, an expert on relationships for Match, explains that social networks should be used to build bridges and build, not to generate resentment.
"It's important to be respectful of the relationship he had with the person," so you avoid some of the following behaviors on your social networks.
1. Delete your ex
Valeria Schapira said that one way to demonstrate maturity is to keep contact your ex on social networks, especially if the break was in good terms.
2. Upload photos kissing someone else
This action is a lack of respect for your former partner. No matter what has happened, what is recommended it is to wait a while before getting images with tokens of affection to somebody else.
3. Delete the pictures
No need to remove photographs that show the story of your life. If necessary, you can change the settings so that they are visible to the people you see fit.
"If you remove photos is like the person and forget everything that lived with him," explains Valeria.
4. Block the couple's friends
The specialist noted that this is a great sign of emotional immaturity. No need to remove them end with your partner, on the contrary, you can keep the friendship of those you care about.
5. Do not be careful postings
Ideally you are more careful when publishing your comments in the social network. Avoid sending messages to your ex hurt.
6. Give jealousy
The worst thing you can do is upload images where you enjoy time with people she did not like your ex, just to make him jealous.
7. Speaking ill of former
It's horrible. When you do, ultimately you talk badly about yourself. Remember that you are expressing someone you chose, so if it was so awful and so bad person, that you were with him or her.
Before doing so think twice; discusses how you feel when you read what you're posting, so you will notice if you're doing the right thing or just a "tantrum or whim."
8. yourself the victim
Each person is free to publish whatever they want, but open your heart or victimize can generate emotions of empathy or rejection.
It is very good to share intimate feelings with people you know and understand the situation you are in, so if you feel the need, it's best to share it with your best friends.
Valeria Schapira concludes that all these behaviors are harmful in the short and long term. It is best to accept that the relationship is over and focus your energy into something positive to overcome the stage of grief and find a new love.